tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post761783544713402011..comments2023-11-03T16:55:30.782+01:00Comments on Presépio com Vista para o Canal: My A-Z of The Netherlands: C is for ChildrenPresépio no Canalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15678476381577723495noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-10560439581878683952012-03-19T11:28:11.579+01:002012-03-19T11:28:11.579+01:00off-course the childhood birthday party celebratio...off-course the childhood birthday party celebrations and places are non-forgettable for any one as my child birthday party was in <a href="http://www.kidsfairyland.com/" rel="nofollow">Broward and Palm Beach</a> make me so happy to remember.alicejhonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16798363789827895937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-64034068409402519442012-03-07T01:23:41.606+01:002012-03-07T01:23:41.606+01:00Hello Kelly :-))
So good to see you here! I'm...Hello Kelly :-))<br /><br />So good to see you here! I'm glad you liked the post.<br />The same goes with me:The Netherlands reminds me more of my childhood. Happy times! ;-)Presépio no Canalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15678476381577723495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-61999000830994725762012-03-07T01:07:19.564+01:002012-03-07T01:07:19.564+01:00Great post! I like learning that there are still s...Great post! I like learning that there are still some countries and cultures out there with, what I consider, solid parenting skills!<br /><br />Portugal sounds similar to Canada- with parents hovering over their children and having parties in rented centres. The Netherlands reminds me more of my childhood of playing outside alone, making my own mistakes, and getting a full nights sleep!kelmariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17733319030034199978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-82668297658153047682012-03-06T01:12:12.982+01:002012-03-06T01:12:12.982+01:00Ana,
Espero que outros paises, incluindo o nosso,...Ana,<br /><br />Espero que outros paises, incluindo o nosso, possam equacionar outras solucoes mais amigas da Familia e respeitadoras de uma vida mais balanceada. <br />Beijinhos grandes! :-)Presépio no Canalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15678476381577723495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-66863260637817056562012-03-06T00:41:31.185+01:002012-03-06T00:41:31.185+01:00Sandra,
Gostei muito destes apontamentos que me mo...Sandra,<br />Gostei muito destes apontamentos que me mostram uma realidade diferente da que por aqui vivemos.<br />Apreciei as fotografias e contento-me por saber que ainda há países em que a família e a mulher têm reconehcimento.<br />Beijinhos! :)))anahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15581739607182513704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-43711501317730223322012-03-05T17:20:02.945+01:002012-03-05T17:20:02.945+01:00Teresa,
Obrigadissima por teres comentado. estava...Teresa,<br /><br />Obrigadissima por teres comentado. estava a rezar para que o fizesses. :-)<br /><br />Alias, hoje andei, vai nao volta para te escrever a pedir um "guest post". Mas sei que tens uma vida muito ocupada e nao queria abusar.<br /><br />Mas, olha, abusando ja: :-)) vou continuar o comentario no teu blog :-))Presépio no Canalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15678476381577723495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-3197330032818467412012-03-05T17:15:02.552+01:002012-03-05T17:15:02.552+01:00Excelente post este e como mãe não podia deixar de...Excelente post este e como mãe não podia deixar de comentar. <br /><br />Uma das coisas que mais gosto na Holanda é que aqui posso ter uma carreira e ser uma profissional respeitada na minha área e ao mesmo tempo ser mãe. <br /><br />Em relação à gravidez e parto, as estatisticas não deixam lugar para dúvidas e a Holanda está muito atrás de países como Portugal. Compreendo melhor agora algumas coisas que no início me faziam muita impressão como não ser acompanhada por um ginecologista ou não fazer análises para confirmar a imunidade à toxoplasmose. Falo a partir da minha experiência pessoal mas no caso de um segundo filho preferia tê-lo na Holanda do que em Portugal, por muitos motivos que não cabem num comentário :)<br /><br />Finalmente em relação à forma como os pais educam os filhos, o mais importante do meu ponto de vista é o facto de os pais (os 2)estarem presentes na vida dos filhos e passarem tempo de qualidade com eles. Não complicam demasiado e dão a liberdade necessária para que eles possam cair, levantar-se a aprender por eles. Dão estrutura, disciplina e regras. Ensinam desde cedo a serem responsáveis e o valor do dinheiro (um bom exemplo são os trabalhos a distribuir publicidade e nos supermercados). <br />Sei que em Portugal há muitos bons pais mais muitas vezes, depois do trabalho, sobra pouco tempo para ser pai.<br /><br />Fico por aqui que o comentário já vai longo :)<br />BeijinhosTeresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04899932991292223506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-59881506790641663112012-03-04T21:30:48.980+01:002012-03-04T21:30:48.980+01:00Sara,
E para os papas tambem. Gosto muito da idei...Sara,<br /><br />E para os papas tambem. Gosto muito da ideia do Papadag. :-)<br /><br />Trabalhar em part-time tambem implica abdicar de alguns "luxos": empregada domestica (que aqui, sem ser declarada, anda nos 10/15 euros /hora), ter so um carro, alguma mobilia comprada em segunda-mao, filhos mais velhos na escola publica (creio que e onde anda a maioria, ate porque parece ser de boa qualidade), casas mais pequenas no inicio da vida familiar (eles aqui mudam muito de casa a medida das necessidades que vao surgindo), festas de aniversario mais modestas, compras com base em promocoes e descontos, etc, muito transporte publico, ferias de caravana e camping, etc. (mas esta e a minha percepcao, havera outras certamente).<br />However, sinto que o meu post esta muito incompleto porque nao aflorei a questao dos dentistas, do transporte publico, etc. Queria tambem ter trabalhado melhor os abonos de familia, etc.<br />Talvez ainda integre o que falta num outro post. :-)<br />Beijinhos! :-)Presépio no Canalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15678476381577723495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-52506811650922302282012-03-04T20:36:17.023+01:002012-03-04T20:36:17.023+01:00Muito interessante esta "overview", Sand...Muito interessante esta "overview", Sandra. Gostei também do contraste que traçaste, que pode ser uma base para várias reflexões sobre as crianças, as famílias e também o papel da mulher. Falamos de direitos, afinal. <br />(Fiquei boquiaberta com os preços dos cuidados extra-familiares. Em contrapartida, acho a possibilidade de trabalho em part-time muito apelativa, embora inacessível para as mulheres portuguesas. Uma pena).<br />Beijinhos e uma óptima semana! :))Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03893620148837360881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-59670320324463736982012-03-04T12:01:29.681+01:002012-03-04T12:01:29.681+01:00It's interesting how we find more and more sim...It's interesting how we find more and more similarities between OZ and NL. :-)<br />About the Dutch teenagers/young adults unruliness, there are two things I don't like it at all: they spit a lot in the streets (less common, but even girls) and leave everything dirty behind in public transports. I was not expecting that when I arrived here.Presépio no Canalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15678476381577723495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-66597589297634518782012-03-04T10:52:10.114+01:002012-03-04T10:52:10.114+01:00Interesting the difference between children in Por...Interesting the difference between children in Portugal and the Netherlands. When we went from South Africa to Portugal, I also noticed people spent weekends in the shopping malls instead of enjoying the fresh air with their kids. Even in a village where I lived kids don´t play outside! Crazy!! Here in Australia it´s very similar to Holland, kids play in the parks, the beach, ride bicycles ....I just find they get a bit unruly when they are teenagers, not respectful of elders and authority.Samihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06467163627586022816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-61114210996313364172012-03-03T18:04:46.062+01:002012-03-03T18:04:46.062+01:00Anita :-) Enjoy your day with R.! FIESTA!FIESTA!!!...Anita :-) Enjoy your day with R.! FIESTA!FIESTA!!!<br /><br />:-))<br /><br />Jo ;-)<br /><br />Interesting what you're saying about the Dutch parents and children in Algarve ;-) Confirms what I watch here.<br /><br />I would like to go to Poland one day :-) to visit Wroclaw, an old wish of mine :-)<br /><br />Beijinhos,<br /><br />SandraPresépio no Canalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15678476381577723495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-8798236446413046482012-03-03T17:39:38.420+01:002012-03-03T17:39:38.420+01:00Some interesting points Sandra and I can relate to...Some interesting points Sandra and I can relate to much of what you're saying. I see a lot of Dutch parents in the Algarve and their attitude does seem to be more relaxed. At the beach they always have practical towelling coverups and are the first to throw themselves headlong into the sea.<br />Some of my Polish family have the same attitudes too- "let them explore their boundaries, that way they'll learn". But a high standard of behaviour is expected.restlessjohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17638813991040890163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-72293974111435893712012-03-03T13:22:14.488+01:002012-03-03T13:22:14.488+01:00Oh how I just am fascinated with the Dutch culture...Oh how I just am fascinated with the Dutch culture in this regard. I think it was YOU dearest, who pointed out a while back that a study had shown that Dutch children were he HAPPIEST children in the world/Europe...I can see why. They have more parent contact!!!!<br /><br />THANK YOU FOR COMING TO VISIT ME to celebrate my 30th anniversary; it is a great satisfaction knowing that I have had at least that much happiness! Peace to you precious Sandra! AnitaCastles Crowns and Cottageshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01780241008313365707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-48129335832299813532012-03-02T23:23:58.382+01:002012-03-02T23:23:58.382+01:00Sometimes I wonder if there are differences regard...Sometimes I wonder if there are differences regarding children between Dutch provinces...<br /><br />Interesting what you describe about Arg. children. May I ask for a post about it? It would be fun to look at the cultural differences :-)<br /><br />See you linda! ;-)Presépio no Canalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15678476381577723495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1521556368374137723.post-32538356351207663652012-03-02T23:02:50.292+01:002012-03-02T23:02:50.292+01:00Very interesting post! Your perception of how chil...Very interesting post! Your perception of how children are raised and the rest is very similar to mine, probably bec. both of us come from a Latin country. I am amazed at how well trained children are here in the NL. Our children in Arg., for example, are more unruly, are less used to structure - that's why probably they don't eat at the table but take bites between running wildly around the house :) and things like that.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06923613028048879472noreply@blogger.com